Question 2: GIDDY UP. The theme of our school costume gala is “Country” and that same weekend I have tickets to BEYONCE. So! This Midwest-born, West Coast-dwelling girl has to head south. Hoping to find pieces that work for both, though the concert will be much sparklier than the school event. This is LA, however, and our school tends to go BIG with their looks. (Last year the theme was 20s and I went full flapper, headband and all.)
I have a clearer sense of Beyonce’s Cowboy Carter aesthetic. The “country” theme for school feels VERY broad. My sister Carolyn, who lives in TN, and I started swapping inspo pics of a young Dolly Parton. A friend offered up Patsy Cline, too. I am planning to buy secondhand here in LA or online, but if there are any brands I should look for or colors/styles/silhouettes, that would be so helpful. THANK YOU!
I second this! We have a wedding to attend next weekend and the welcome reception is western chic. Bought myself a pair of the Tecovas Loretta in saddle cowhide. Have been wearing them to break them in but to my surprise and delight, they need no breaking in. I’ve still been wearing them though 😅 Comfortable from the first moment I put my feet in them. I live in Atlanta where spring has already arrived so it has been my go to with dresses and a light jacket. You do have to size down. I am normally 8.5 and the 8 is perfect. And I’ll certainly be wearing them to see Beyoncé later this year!
WESTERN CHIC. What a dress code! I love that. Can I ask, do you wear them with jeans? And if so, is this like a skinny jean moment where you tuck them in? I figure if I'm getting boots I want them to show.
Montana perspective: Only tuck jeans into boots if the boots are highly decorative on the shaft and the jeans are truly skinny (like bordering on jegging). If you want to show off the boot, steer toward a dress or skirt because there's always someone who scoffs at tucked in jeans (and people have STRONG feelings on this one 🙄).
Maybe look into duster cardigans - they're versatile and can be worn with jeans or over a sequin skirt/dress. Something like this?
I don’t tuck jeans into boots. I have a short pair and wear them with longer shorts and longer dresses and skirts as well as boot cut or mid to wide leg jeans. They are very comfortable- the short ones are designed to slip up and down so they do take some getting used to. Tecova makes no- show socks designed to wear with them.
I have not worn them with jeans but I think they’d fit over skinny jeans. There’s room in the boot shaft. My dresses are usually midi length so they still show some. People can def tell they’re cowboy boots because I’ve gotten comments (in the best way).
Jumping on the Tecovas train here!…I’m an Orange County transplant and have now been living in Austin for 20 years…and somehow just bought my first pair of boots today and went with Tecovas! Got the Annie in “fawn” suede (“cafe” goat was a close second) and I’m in love. So comfortable already. I’m a size 8 and got a size 7. Was advised to go at least a half size smaller but the suede and goat stretch out quite a bit so the full size down was recommended. Planning to wear mostly with dresses and skirts. Going to be on the hunt for boot cut jeans!
My first question is about SWIMSUITS! 👙 Where are we buying our swimsuits? I had one for years I *loved* from J.Crew but it’s finally given up. I also still like the wrap styles I have from Summersault. But could use a new one or two for our trip.
On the hunt now for two different types: A low-cut long torso one piece, ideally in a print (why are so many bathing suits solids??) as well as a high-waisted two piece with a triangle or plunge top. Also in a print! Tempted to mix-and-match the way Leslie Bibb’s character does on White Lotus. Oh, and also: full bum coverage, always. 🙃
Australia has some awesome swimwear brands - mister zimi has great patterns and bright colours and Jets is a great classic brand, I have a lovely swimsuit from Jets that holds up well and you can play with the kids etc without worrying about anything falling out
I really like 'Left on Friday' after a recent order. There's a great 'La Blanca' suit available at Nordstrom that I love and my friends now swear by after recommending. Eyeing a Karla Colletto after TIBAL and Others recommended. Also trying Monday swimwear, will report back.
I have spied both on some of my favorite Insta follows but haven’t ordered yet. Would def love some SMT on either of these or other suggestions from this community.
I second the Lands End suggestion. I have two of their suits that have held up so well and fit my long torso. I’m able to play with my son in the water while feeling secure and covered where I want to be covered. Bonus is the size inclusivity.
I have a shopping guru friend who swears by Stylest. She says they are a little work to get on but worth it because she’s never felt so comfortable in a swimsuit.
Thanks to a white lotus outfits instagram account I can tell you that the mix and match is from here: https://juillet.com/collections/new-arrivals-2 Couldn't tell you about size/fit and the prices feel a bit steep but I also love that print!
Recently I've been buying my swimsuits from Faithful The Brand https://faithfullthebrand.com/collections/swim Definitely a range of coverage options, and the price point can feel a bit high but they work with artists in Indonesia for their prints and are a BCorp and the suits I have are a great material/thickness. Runs a bit small, but that feels typical of Australian sizing. They have some fun prints that could likely be mix and matched white lotus style!
I have been eyeing Kitty and Vibe so would be curious as to thoughts from others.., second Left on Friday and their 2 piece has tons of bum coverage. I also really love Athleta rash guards and high neck tops from a few seasons ago. I actually decided to embrace a trend last year and get a Skimms zip up high neck suit… LOVE it- no bum coverage ha but I don’t care I’ve worn it around my family and not an issue
I second Lands' End! Katie Sturino pointed me in their direction and I purchased a suit and some rash guard items last year for our summer resort trip to Lake Michigan. So pleased! Quality items and so comfortable - wore the rash guard top and bottom kayaking and bike riding, as well!
Of course! Lake Shore Resort in Saugatuck - a little slice of heaven! The Cottage would be perfect for a family get together - reservations open at 8:00 am Eastern on April 15th!
I’ve found some good swim suits on lands end. I really love the summer salt Surf suit but they don’t make it in enough colors any more. Great coverage for sun protection and having kids hanging on you. I’ve also loved the vineyard vines one pieces for a long time. Their tie one piece is so flattering and the quality justifies the price. I have a navy and white stripe suit that I’m hoping hangs on one more season. Their harbor shirt cover ups are great quality and classic. I buy them on sale every few years.
LL bean has also surprised me lately. There collaboration with Summersalt is half off on the ll bean website - tempting but I need to purge some before I add any new suits!
I am here for both topics! Similarly, we have our first family tropical vacation this month then our school fundraiser which is a cowboy/girl theme (“denim & diamonds”).
For swimwear, I’ve had my eye on Minnow for some cute prints. Bonus: can do matching for Bird (or, the whole fam!). Also looking at Albion Fit which has lots of great prints, too.
Thanks for all of the ideas and leads in this thread!
I love these kinds of posts! Looking for two things this season! Slip on sneakers, think leather Steve Madden slides, and then t shirt dresses! Easy to slip on for running errands or heading out for dinner! Thank you all!
Hi Elspeth! I just poked around Gap, which is always the first brand that comes to mind with T-shirt dresses, and they have a "Modern Ribbed" style on sale right now that felt new + interesting. Old Navy is always good, too! If you want something more dressy, I have heard great things about the Andie dress from La Ligne, which is a longer/more voluminous T-shirt style (that comes with a belt).
For sneakers, when you say slip-on, is it like the traditional Vans or more of a mule?
I stumbled upon a T-shirt dress from Old Navy that I’ve been wearing nonstop: https://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=705306002 (Vintage Maxi T-Shirt dress) They can be dressed up, dressed down. Bought the blue & white striped one as well as the red one. Have washed each probably 5-6 times and the fabric has held up. They’re also super comfy. I’m a size 10 and 5’9” and the M tall fits perfectly.
This discussion could not come at a better time. I need ideas/suggestions/inspiration for a wedding I’m attending this summer. The details: Italy, Amalfi Coast, in July; dress code is black tie. I’m looking to spend $400-$500 max (because the wedding is overseas and I’m traveling with a friend for a week before, something like rent the runway isn’t an option—champagne problems, I know). Two things that can make shopping challenging: I’m short, so dresses need to either be petite, easily tailored or midi length (which will be full length on me!) and have a large chest, so nothing strapless or backless. Help!!!
SARAH. This sounds SO FUN. I love this for you! Amalfi Coast black tie is such a good combo, it's dressy but relaxed (if that makes sense lol). To keep it dressy enough, maybe steer clear of cotton/linen fabrics and go for something like silk or satin? Prints can be tricky with black tie but I think it can absolutely work for the Amalfi coast. And I'd say the location calls for flowy vs more structured but tbqh either could work.
Brands that came to mind: Farm Rio and RIXO. Also, have you ever shopped at Tuckernuck? I am new to the retailer (after seeing their ads allllll over the internet). They carry a mix of outside designers as well as having their own Tuckernuck brand. The latter is right in your price point, with some very fun dresses under $400. Check out their "cocktail" edit under dresses right now, which I would say is dressier than most cocktail.
Thank you, Elizabeth--I am so grateful to have your expert thoughts here!! I am a huge Farm Rio fan, so you are right on target there. I will check out RIXO. Tuckernuck is also all over my internet lol, but I haven't ever tried them. Lots of fun research to do!!
I just went through this for a spring black tie wedding with a floral twist on the dress code. What I learned: for it to be considered black tie, a dress has to have a structured bodice / top and be floor length. Where I found most success was with Mac Duggal. The dresses are around $400-600 (just slightly above your price range). But, the top offers support for a larger chest. I ended up with a one shoulder dress that has a bustier inside and feels supported. Also, buy it through Nordstrom - they have free returns so you can order them in multiple sizes and they’ll do alterations for you.
You might try The Outnet. https://www.theoutnet.com/en-us/shop/. I found a beautiful Marchsea Notte dress there for about half price. They have a lot of selection. I ordered two dresses and returned the one I did not want.
Thank you, Mary! This looks amazing--I'm definitely going to spend some time browsing around. I'm so glad to hear that you can order multiple pieces and the return process is easy--gives peace of mind!
What do I wear to be the maid of honor at my best friend’s wedding in May in Charleston? No requirements from the bride at all, my heart says Self Portrait but my body says size 20 and pregnant enough to be chunky around the middle but not pregnant enough for a cute bump or maternity clothing. Up to $500.
Congratulations, Fiona!! Self Portrait dresses are beautiful but I would not recommend them for pregnancy / changing bodies - I find them to be VERY fitted.
A few more Qs for you: Do you want solid or print? Long or short? Sleeves or no? When I hear Charleston in springtime, I think flowy and colorful. But I know that in-between stage in pregnancy can be tricky in terms of finding something you feel comfortable in.
Open to solid or a print, but if a print like a soft one I don’t want to go bright and tropical. Knee to midi length, not strapless but any sleeve up to short is fine. And I love the self portrait look but they only go up to size 12 so not an option pregnant or not! I’d like to look like I could rewear the dress to Ascot.
Ascot! The perfect style direction. And agree on going for something in a softer palette. Do you like Hobbs? That's one brand I love for this sort of thing - the Willa dress is gorgeous (and not just because it's light blue lol), so is the Faye.
Not quite as structured as those but J.Crew has a collection dress that is soft and pink and flowy and fun (they don't name their styles but it's called the "Collection ruffle-trim midi dress in crinkle cupro.")
Was browsing around Nordstrom (which always has a solid wedding guest assortment) and came across the brand Mac Duggal. Loving the softness here! And something with an empire waist offers a lot of flexibility for post-pregnancy wear, too. https://www.nordstrom.com/s/empire-waist-embellished-short-sleeve-dress/8260537
I have to put a plug in for Gap! Everyone in fashion is saying Gap is good again because they've brought in Zac Posen. I shopped there for the first time in awhile for the Meghan looks newsletter and was vv impressed by their linen coordinating pieces. They have shorts/pants/shirts/tanks/skirts, so many choices.
I am touring Greece for ten days in May. We will be visiting a lot of historical sites, and will spend four days 'island hopping' on the Mediterranean. This is a historical /biblical sites tour, where my husband and I will be some of the youngest people participating. I want comfortable, lightweight dresses that can withstand walking and being packed tightly in a suitcase. We have heard that the culture is casual but not sloppy, as the Greek people take pride in looking nice. I can't afford a new wardrobe, so a couple of versatile dresses would be great. Also, recommendations on shoes!! THis is always such a fun comment section, so thank you.
Hi Leah! What a fun trip. Can you give me a rough budget for how much you want to spend on a dress? Shirt dresses work well in these scenarios, I've found, because you can dress them up or down depending on the day. Also, linen pants! They can roll up nicely and you can pair with a fitted ribbed tank or t-shirt. Old Navy has some great options right now.
For shoes, I think you could get away with white sneakers. I would recommend leather so you can wipe them off easily (rather than canvas, which can be tricker to clean).
Was just poking around - something like this perhaps?
My budget for new items for the trip is around $250, but I could flex a little for high quality, long lasting items. I love the possibility of mixing on sale Old Navy dresses with Anthro or other mid priced ones!
I already have two pairs of these gauze pants from Old Navy— not linen, but such a breezy dream to wear, and I think they will look fabulous with a tshirt or cotton/linen button down! https://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=683348012
I have a pair of white canvas sneakers that I just spent a long time trying to get white again😂😂 so I think the leather suggestion is smart!!
As Oprah's huge special on menopause is about to air tonight, I, as an older woman, am wondering how to style my clothes. I want to look stylish, but my physical shape has changed with menopause and my flat tummy has been replaced by a roundish one. I am in good shape, exercise almost daily, and eat well, but there is no escaping that tummy. So many tops accentuate the tummy rather than obscure it, and I don't want to always be wearing a sweatshirt or a sweater. Dresses are not even in the conversation anymore. What are your thoughts on my dilemma? Thank you!
Hi Frances, how are you feeling about jeans these days? After watching Meghan's show, I'm all about a looser linen button shirt tucked into jeans. I think if you leave it open a bit like she does, and tuck it in, the eye is drawn up. (Also, Oprah has fabulous style! I am constantly scoping out what she is wearing and it's a lot of pleated trousers and more fitted tops).
Any suggestions on what to wear to a friends wedding in Cleveland in mid-April? The wedding is cocktail attire but I'm struggling to find something for early spring with how variable the weather may be.
Mid-April in the midwest is tough! It could be a gorgeous spring day and it could be snowing. :( Are you a fan of jumpsuits by any chance? I find that solves the tights problem, and it ups the fun factor quite a bit. I find they come with some very interesting necklines (esp halter or one-shoulder) and you can either go sleek with black or pick a fun color.
I've found that a really spectacular shawl can be a great accessory when weather is a factor. Something that can both tie the outfit together if it's chilly but be easily shed if things end up warmer than anticipated.
Love this thread! I was wondering what is like the perfect sneaker! I think white tennis shoes are cute but hate all the chunky ones! Then I read somewhere tennis shoes are kind of getting the ballet flat treatment and skinnier is better! Would love every ones fashion tennis shoes recs!
I saw that on skinny, too! Right after I bought the chunkier New Balance. 🙃 I have a new pair of the new Larroude ones (gifted, they are $$) and I think that is the slimmer vibe everyone is talking about. Did a little Googling now and I think the J.Crew "Rec" sneakers are the same vibe. Lots of lacing, all the way up. The Sam Edelman "Kallan" is a similar look. If you want a more classic look, it would be the Adidas Sambas. Or for something royal-inspired, you could never go wrong with the classic Supergas.
This is not what you were asking but I came across these canvas ballet flats from Everlane and I am INTRIGUED.
Elizabeth thanks this is good advice! Also there Everlane shoes are definately so fun and something I would have never thought for myself ( in a good way)
Always partial to my Vejas, even though they take a bit to break in. Definitely not "skinny" but also not too chunky depending on what style you go for. I have bought the V10 style in the same color way twice, needed to replace after I wore through the first pair
I really love the Cole Haan GrandPro Topspin Sneaker - more classic than athletic and true to size for me (size 10). I've had a few pairs - they hold up well and are very versatile. My favorite is the White-Dove but they have several other colorways. I'm always on the lookout as they do go on sale occasionally, too!
I’m (fingers crossed) potentially starting a new job and have some really good professional wear but could use some new layer basics to mix in. Need t-shirts that are not too see through for layering. I’m more of a relaxed fit person but contemplating trying some ribbed and more fitted as layering pieces with a level of sophistication. Love this forum!!
Yay! Congrats, Liz. Agree that ribbed / fitted is always going to read a bit dressier and is very of the moment. I got a ribbed t-shirt from Madewell for under a blazer on my London trip and have worn it a surprising amount in the times since (it pilled, which I found annoying, so won't link here). Have you tried Banana Republic? They've stepped it up in recent years and I spent more than I wanted to on some ribbed tanks (always hard to spend $$ on basics). But have LOVED them. Bought the Target version, too, and always always reach for the BR ones. Has been a little reminder to myself that sometimes spending a bit more is worth it. Good luck with the new role!
Question 2: GIDDY UP. The theme of our school costume gala is “Country” and that same weekend I have tickets to BEYONCE. So! This Midwest-born, West Coast-dwelling girl has to head south. Hoping to find pieces that work for both, though the concert will be much sparklier than the school event. This is LA, however, and our school tends to go BIG with their looks. (Last year the theme was 20s and I went full flapper, headband and all.)
I have a clearer sense of Beyonce’s Cowboy Carter aesthetic. The “country” theme for school feels VERY broad. My sister Carolyn, who lives in TN, and I started swapping inspo pics of a young Dolly Parton. A friend offered up Patsy Cline, too. I am planning to buy secondhand here in LA or online, but if there are any brands I should look for or colors/styles/silhouettes, that would be so helpful. THANK YOU!
Former Texan here. If you want authentic, fashionable and comfy boots, check out Tecovas. Designed in Austin, handmade in Mexico. Have fun!
THANK YOU, this is great to know.
I love what this community has become ❤️
I second this! We have a wedding to attend next weekend and the welcome reception is western chic. Bought myself a pair of the Tecovas Loretta in saddle cowhide. Have been wearing them to break them in but to my surprise and delight, they need no breaking in. I’ve still been wearing them though 😅 Comfortable from the first moment I put my feet in them. I live in Atlanta where spring has already arrived so it has been my go to with dresses and a light jacket. You do have to size down. I am normally 8.5 and the 8 is perfect. And I’ll certainly be wearing them to see Beyoncé later this year!
WESTERN CHIC. What a dress code! I love that. Can I ask, do you wear them with jeans? And if so, is this like a skinny jean moment where you tuck them in? I figure if I'm getting boots I want them to show.
Montana perspective: Only tuck jeans into boots if the boots are highly decorative on the shaft and the jeans are truly skinny (like bordering on jegging). If you want to show off the boot, steer toward a dress or skirt because there's always someone who scoffs at tucked in jeans (and people have STRONG feelings on this one 🙄).
Maybe look into duster cardigans - they're versatile and can be worn with jeans or over a sequin skirt/dress. Something like this?
https://www.pendleton-usa.com/product/womens-cotton-duster-cardigan/13328Z.html?dwvar_13328Z_color=87397
Wider price point options (and more kimono styles if weather will be warm):
https://www.bootbarn.com/op/womens-dusters
Thank you so much for these suggestions - VERY helpful. (I LOL'd at strong feelings but also - of course. I respect strong feelings!)
I don’t tuck jeans into boots. I have a short pair and wear them with longer shorts and longer dresses and skirts as well as boot cut or mid to wide leg jeans. They are very comfortable- the short ones are designed to slip up and down so they do take some getting used to. Tecova makes no- show socks designed to wear with them.
I think the short Tecovas would be cute with a Nap Dress, maybe styled with a denim jacket or barn coat, and maybe some turquoise jewelry
I have not worn them with jeans but I think they’d fit over skinny jeans. There’s room in the boot shaft. My dresses are usually midi length so they still show some. People can def tell they’re cowboy boots because I’ve gotten comments (in the best way).
Jumping on the Tecovas train here!…I’m an Orange County transplant and have now been living in Austin for 20 years…and somehow just bought my first pair of boots today and went with Tecovas! Got the Annie in “fawn” suede (“cafe” goat was a close second) and I’m in love. So comfortable already. I’m a size 8 and got a size 7. Was advised to go at least a half size smaller but the suede and goat stretch out quite a bit so the full size down was recommended. Planning to wear mostly with dresses and skirts. Going to be on the hunt for boot cut jeans!
My first question is about SWIMSUITS! 👙 Where are we buying our swimsuits? I had one for years I *loved* from J.Crew but it’s finally given up. I also still like the wrap styles I have from Summersault. But could use a new one or two for our trip.
On the hunt now for two different types: A low-cut long torso one piece, ideally in a print (why are so many bathing suits solids??) as well as a high-waisted two piece with a triangle or plunge top. Also in a print! Tempted to mix-and-match the way Leslie Bibb’s character does on White Lotus. Oh, and also: full bum coverage, always. 🙃
Australia has some awesome swimwear brands - mister zimi has great patterns and bright colours and Jets is a great classic brand, I have a lovely swimsuit from Jets that holds up well and you can play with the kids etc without worrying about anything falling out
Thank you for this rec!
I have a super long torso and Boden is my go-to for one-piece swimsuits.
I was just looking at Boden last night! Ty for this rec
Left on Friday has really nice mix & match and certainly have a high waisted version. Really really lovely colors and quality.
I really like 'Left on Friday' after a recent order. There's a great 'La Blanca' suit available at Nordstrom that I love and my friends now swear by after recommending. Eyeing a Karla Colletto after TIBAL and Others recommended. Also trying Monday swimwear, will report back.
I love the mix and match from Kortni Jeane!
I love this forum and am so grateful you are stating this chat! I’ve been eyeing some suits:
Stylest (fun bright pink color: https://www.shopbop.com/dreamsculpt-square-neck-tank-suit/vp/v=1/1500892990.htm?colorSin=2008015588)
Lands End - surprises by some of the cute prints and fun 2 piece styles that meet the high waist full coverage criteria and cute plunging tops ( https://www.landsend.com/shop/womens-swimsuits/S-xfh-xez-y5c-xec)
I have spied both on some of my favorite Insta follows but haven’t ordered yet. Would def love some SMT on either of these or other suggestions from this community.
I second the Lands End suggestion. I have two of their suits that have held up so well and fit my long torso. I’m able to play with my son in the water while feeling secure and covered where I want to be covered. Bonus is the size inclusivity.
I have a shopping guru friend who swears by Stylest. She says they are a little work to get on but worth it because she’s never felt so comfortable in a swimsuit.
I am more than willing to shimmy into something if everything feels secure once it's on! 😅
My current favorite swimsuit is from J. Crew Factory - the ruched plunge one piece.
I was eyeing that! Does it run true to size? Always trying to gauge fit with my long torso.
I’d say one size down.
Thanks to a white lotus outfits instagram account I can tell you that the mix and match is from here: https://juillet.com/collections/new-arrivals-2 Couldn't tell you about size/fit and the prices feel a bit steep but I also love that print!
Recently I've been buying my swimsuits from Faithful The Brand https://faithfullthebrand.com/collections/swim Definitely a range of coverage options, and the price point can feel a bit high but they work with artists in Indonesia for their prints and are a BCorp and the suits I have are a great material/thickness. Runs a bit small, but that feels typical of Australian sizing. They have some fun prints that could likely be mix and matched white lotus style!
I have been eyeing Kitty and Vibe so would be curious as to thoughts from others.., second Left on Friday and their 2 piece has tons of bum coverage. I also really love Athleta rash guards and high neck tops from a few seasons ago. I actually decided to embrace a trend last year and get a Skimms zip up high neck suit… LOVE it- no bum coverage ha but I don’t care I’ve worn it around my family and not an issue
Lands End has such good pieces that last forever! Highly recommend!
I second Lands' End! Katie Sturino pointed me in their direction and I purchased a suit and some rash guard items last year for our summer resort trip to Lake Michigan. So pleased! Quality items and so comfortable - wore the rash guard top and bottom kayaking and bike riding, as well!
Can I ask where you stayed in Lake Michigan? We're looking at places for a Midwestern family get together. Thank you, Teresa!
Of course! Lake Shore Resort in Saugatuck - a little slice of heaven! The Cottage would be perfect for a family get together - reservations open at 8:00 am Eastern on April 15th!
https://www.lakeshoreresortsaugatuck.com
This is gorgeous! Bookmarking this - thank you so much.
Michigander here: don’t sleep on Traverse City, Charlevoix and Petoskey. NYT did a Traverse City feature not too long ago in the travel section.
Second this! We have a place at Crystal Lake and it’s gorgeous.
I’ve found some good swim suits on lands end. I really love the summer salt Surf suit but they don’t make it in enough colors any more. Great coverage for sun protection and having kids hanging on you. I’ve also loved the vineyard vines one pieces for a long time. Their tie one piece is so flattering and the quality justifies the price. I have a navy and white stripe suit that I’m hoping hangs on one more season. Their harbor shirt cover ups are great quality and classic. I buy them on sale every few years.
Ahh, Vineyard Vines! It hasn't been on my radar but I just did a little browsing and I love their prints. Thank you for this. x
LL bean has also surprised me lately. There collaboration with Summersalt is half off on the ll bean website - tempting but I need to purge some before I add any new suits!
I am here for both topics! Similarly, we have our first family tropical vacation this month then our school fundraiser which is a cowboy/girl theme (“denim & diamonds”).
For swimwear, I’ve had my eye on Minnow for some cute prints. Bonus: can do matching for Bird (or, the whole fam!). Also looking at Albion Fit which has lots of great prints, too.
Thanks for all of the ideas and leads in this thread!
Omg! Denim and diamonds ✨
I love these kinds of posts! Looking for two things this season! Slip on sneakers, think leather Steve Madden slides, and then t shirt dresses! Easy to slip on for running errands or heading out for dinner! Thank you all!
Hi Elspeth! I just poked around Gap, which is always the first brand that comes to mind with T-shirt dresses, and they have a "Modern Ribbed" style on sale right now that felt new + interesting. Old Navy is always good, too! If you want something more dressy, I have heard great things about the Andie dress from La Ligne, which is a longer/more voluminous T-shirt style (that comes with a belt).
For sneakers, when you say slip-on, is it like the traditional Vans or more of a mule?
I didn’t even think to try Gap! That’s a great idea of a place to look, and looking for more of a van for sneakers!
Try Universal Standard for t shirt dresses! They are my go to throw on and go outfit in the summer.
Thank you! I will check it out!
I stumbled upon a T-shirt dress from Old Navy that I’ve been wearing nonstop: https://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=705306002 (Vintage Maxi T-Shirt dress) They can be dressed up, dressed down. Bought the blue & white striped one as well as the red one. Have washed each probably 5-6 times and the fabric has held up. They’re also super comfy. I’m a size 10 and 5’9” and the M tall fits perfectly.
Ohhh i love old navy! That dress looks perfect for summer!
I cannot recommend it enough. If they ever bring back more colors, I’ll be first in line! Wore them yesterday to a friend’s backyard party.
So happy with my new Veronica beard slip ons but they are a splurge.
Thank you for the recommendation!
Vionic for slip on more casual shoes! I own a travel company and travel the world a lot and they are so comfortable for long days, plus cute
Thank you for the recommendation!! I will check it out!
This discussion could not come at a better time. I need ideas/suggestions/inspiration for a wedding I’m attending this summer. The details: Italy, Amalfi Coast, in July; dress code is black tie. I’m looking to spend $400-$500 max (because the wedding is overseas and I’m traveling with a friend for a week before, something like rent the runway isn’t an option—champagne problems, I know). Two things that can make shopping challenging: I’m short, so dresses need to either be petite, easily tailored or midi length (which will be full length on me!) and have a large chest, so nothing strapless or backless. Help!!!
SARAH. This sounds SO FUN. I love this for you! Amalfi Coast black tie is such a good combo, it's dressy but relaxed (if that makes sense lol). To keep it dressy enough, maybe steer clear of cotton/linen fabrics and go for something like silk or satin? Prints can be tricky with black tie but I think it can absolutely work for the Amalfi coast. And I'd say the location calls for flowy vs more structured but tbqh either could work.
Brands that came to mind: Farm Rio and RIXO. Also, have you ever shopped at Tuckernuck? I am new to the retailer (after seeing their ads allllll over the internet). They carry a mix of outside designers as well as having their own Tuckernuck brand. The latter is right in your price point, with some very fun dresses under $400. Check out their "cocktail" edit under dresses right now, which I would say is dressier than most cocktail.
Please let us know what you get! x
Thank you, Elizabeth--I am so grateful to have your expert thoughts here!! I am a huge Farm Rio fan, so you are right on target there. I will check out RIXO. Tuckernuck is also all over my internet lol, but I haven't ever tried them. Lots of fun research to do!!
I just went through this for a spring black tie wedding with a floral twist on the dress code. What I learned: for it to be considered black tie, a dress has to have a structured bodice / top and be floor length. Where I found most success was with Mac Duggal. The dresses are around $400-600 (just slightly above your price range). But, the top offers support for a larger chest. I ended up with a one shoulder dress that has a bustier inside and feels supported. Also, buy it through Nordstrom - they have free returns so you can order them in multiple sizes and they’ll do alterations for you.
Thank you, Terena--these are such good good tips!! I'm not familiar with Mac Duggal, but I'll be checking them out now :)
I wasn’t either until I went down this rabbit hole. Good luck!
You might try The Outnet. https://www.theoutnet.com/en-us/shop/. I found a beautiful Marchsea Notte dress there for about half price. They have a lot of selection. I ordered two dresses and returned the one I did not want.
Thank you, Mary! This looks amazing--I'm definitely going to spend some time browsing around. I'm so glad to hear that you can order multiple pieces and the return process is easy--gives peace of mind!
What do I wear to be the maid of honor at my best friend’s wedding in May in Charleston? No requirements from the bride at all, my heart says Self Portrait but my body says size 20 and pregnant enough to be chunky around the middle but not pregnant enough for a cute bump or maternity clothing. Up to $500.
Congratulations, Fiona!! Self Portrait dresses are beautiful but I would not recommend them for pregnancy / changing bodies - I find them to be VERY fitted.
A few more Qs for you: Do you want solid or print? Long or short? Sleeves or no? When I hear Charleston in springtime, I think flowy and colorful. But I know that in-between stage in pregnancy can be tricky in terms of finding something you feel comfortable in.
Open to solid or a print, but if a print like a soft one I don’t want to go bright and tropical. Knee to midi length, not strapless but any sleeve up to short is fine. And I love the self portrait look but they only go up to size 12 so not an option pregnant or not! I’d like to look like I could rewear the dress to Ascot.
Ascot! The perfect style direction. And agree on going for something in a softer palette. Do you like Hobbs? That's one brand I love for this sort of thing - the Willa dress is gorgeous (and not just because it's light blue lol), so is the Faye.
Not quite as structured as those but J.Crew has a collection dress that is soft and pink and flowy and fun (they don't name their styles but it's called the "Collection ruffle-trim midi dress in crinkle cupro.")
Was browsing around Nordstrom (which always has a solid wedding guest assortment) and came across the brand Mac Duggal. Loving the softness here! And something with an empire waist offers a lot of flexibility for post-pregnancy wear, too. https://www.nordstrom.com/s/empire-waist-embellished-short-sleeve-dress/8260537
Hope this helps! Have so much fun! x
Thank you! Love the Mac Duggal dress and it comes in my size, ordering now!
Yay!! 🙌
I’m on the hunt for matching sets for spring/summer! There’s a linen short set from Athleta that I’ve been considering. Curious for any suggestions.
I have to put a plug in for Gap! Everyone in fashion is saying Gap is good again because they've brought in Zac Posen. I shopped there for the first time in awhile for the Meghan looks newsletter and was vv impressed by their linen coordinating pieces. They have shorts/pants/shirts/tanks/skirts, so many choices.
More on ZP for those interested:
https://www.vogue.com/article/zac-posen-gap-profile-winter-2025
Gap has been really good lately!
I keep seeing “Liz L” commented and thinking….I did? 🤣 I second Gap being so good right now, too!
I saw this skirt and the matching somewhat cropped (but still long enough not to show skin) top in a store yesterday, and it is such a cute pair! https://southerntide.com/products/peyton-midi-skirt
I am touring Greece for ten days in May. We will be visiting a lot of historical sites, and will spend four days 'island hopping' on the Mediterranean. This is a historical /biblical sites tour, where my husband and I will be some of the youngest people participating. I want comfortable, lightweight dresses that can withstand walking and being packed tightly in a suitcase. We have heard that the culture is casual but not sloppy, as the Greek people take pride in looking nice. I can't afford a new wardrobe, so a couple of versatile dresses would be great. Also, recommendations on shoes!! THis is always such a fun comment section, so thank you.
Hi Leah! What a fun trip. Can you give me a rough budget for how much you want to spend on a dress? Shirt dresses work well in these scenarios, I've found, because you can dress them up or down depending on the day. Also, linen pants! They can roll up nicely and you can pair with a fitted ribbed tank or t-shirt. Old Navy has some great options right now.
For shoes, I think you could get away with white sneakers. I would recommend leather so you can wipe them off easily (rather than canvas, which can be tricker to clean).
Was just poking around - something like this perhaps?
https://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=705471012&vid=1&tid=onns000009#pdp-page-content
Or this so pretty!
https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/the-helena-square-neck-tiered-midi-dress-smocked-edition?category=dresses-midi&color=079&type=STANDARD&quantity=1
Boden and Uniqlo have some fab dresses right now
My budget for new items for the trip is around $250, but I could flex a little for high quality, long lasting items. I love the possibility of mixing on sale Old Navy dresses with Anthro or other mid priced ones!
I already have two pairs of these gauze pants from Old Navy— not linen, but such a breezy dream to wear, and I think they will look fabulous with a tshirt or cotton/linen button down! https://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=683348012
I have a pair of white canvas sneakers that I just spent a long time trying to get white again😂😂 so I think the leather suggestion is smart!!
As Oprah's huge special on menopause is about to air tonight, I, as an older woman, am wondering how to style my clothes. I want to look stylish, but my physical shape has changed with menopause and my flat tummy has been replaced by a roundish one. I am in good shape, exercise almost daily, and eat well, but there is no escaping that tummy. So many tops accentuate the tummy rather than obscure it, and I don't want to always be wearing a sweatshirt or a sweater. Dresses are not even in the conversation anymore. What are your thoughts on my dilemma? Thank you!
Hi Frances, how are you feeling about jeans these days? After watching Meghan's show, I'm all about a looser linen button shirt tucked into jeans. I think if you leave it open a bit like she does, and tuck it in, the eye is drawn up. (Also, Oprah has fabulous style! I am constantly scoping out what she is wearing and it's a lot of pleated trousers and more fitted tops).
Any suggestions on what to wear to a friends wedding in Cleveland in mid-April? The wedding is cocktail attire but I'm struggling to find something for early spring with how variable the weather may be.
Mid-April in the midwest is tough! It could be a gorgeous spring day and it could be snowing. :( Are you a fan of jumpsuits by any chance? I find that solves the tights problem, and it ups the fun factor quite a bit. I find they come with some very interesting necklines (esp halter or one-shoulder) and you can either go sleek with black or pick a fun color.
I've found that a really spectacular shawl can be a great accessory when weather is a factor. Something that can both tie the outfit together if it's chilly but be easily shed if things end up warmer than anticipated.
Love this thread! I was wondering what is like the perfect sneaker! I think white tennis shoes are cute but hate all the chunky ones! Then I read somewhere tennis shoes are kind of getting the ballet flat treatment and skinnier is better! Would love every ones fashion tennis shoes recs!
I saw that on skinny, too! Right after I bought the chunkier New Balance. 🙃 I have a new pair of the new Larroude ones (gifted, they are $$) and I think that is the slimmer vibe everyone is talking about. Did a little Googling now and I think the J.Crew "Rec" sneakers are the same vibe. Lots of lacing, all the way up. The Sam Edelman "Kallan" is a similar look. If you want a more classic look, it would be the Adidas Sambas. Or for something royal-inspired, you could never go wrong with the classic Supergas.
This is not what you were asking but I came across these canvas ballet flats from Everlane and I am INTRIGUED.
https://www.everlane.com/products/womens-leather-day-glove2-canvas
Elizabeth thanks this is good advice! Also there Everlane shoes are definately so fun and something I would have never thought for myself ( in a good way)
Always partial to my Vejas, even though they take a bit to break in. Definitely not "skinny" but also not too chunky depending on what style you go for. I have bought the V10 style in the same color way twice, needed to replace after I wore through the first pair
I really love the Cole Haan GrandPro Topspin Sneaker - more classic than athletic and true to size for me (size 10). I've had a few pairs - they hold up well and are very versatile. My favorite is the White-Dove but they have several other colorways. I'm always on the lookout as they do go on sale occasionally, too!
https://www.colehaan.com/womens-grandpro-topspin-sneaker/W24775.html
I’m (fingers crossed) potentially starting a new job and have some really good professional wear but could use some new layer basics to mix in. Need t-shirts that are not too see through for layering. I’m more of a relaxed fit person but contemplating trying some ribbed and more fitted as layering pieces with a level of sophistication. Love this forum!!
Yay! Congrats, Liz. Agree that ribbed / fitted is always going to read a bit dressier and is very of the moment. I got a ribbed t-shirt from Madewell for under a blazer on my London trip and have worn it a surprising amount in the times since (it pilled, which I found annoying, so won't link here). Have you tried Banana Republic? They've stepped it up in recent years and I spent more than I wanted to on some ribbed tanks (always hard to spend $$ on basics). But have LOVED them. Bought the Target version, too, and always always reach for the BR ones. Has been a little reminder to myself that sometimes spending a bit more is worth it. Good luck with the new role!